Am I wrong???

I am sure a lot of people might get this question sometime or other, or sometimes everyday. Well, everyday seems a little unusual but if you think a lot  and would care you would surely get it everyday.:) I think a lot sometimes on some issues, but fail to get an answer to my question. Then I realised that thinking doesn't give you an answer to your questions. Then what? Retrospection? Does that help? I think to some extent that might help, that would help you rewind a lot of incidents in the past, but again the same question, whatever had happened that time, was it because of me ?

There are no answers to questions like these unless you find the subject of your act. You get this question usually when things go in a different direction from the one you wish. Now, who has to decide which is the right direction. We feel ofcourse the one we wish, but that's not always necessary. This question can arise for numerous reasons. Right from your 10th grade, I am starting from there because I think that is when you actually start caring for things around you. Your studies, your examinations, your grades, your decision of taking the future course of education, your career path, your friends and life partner, but things don't stop here. Infact it starts after you begin your life in a new phase, a family phase. You have to balance so many things. Your family, the new relations, your career, friends and so many other things.
Now so many things would increase our chances of going wrong some or other way. The catch here is the way you handle it. Trust me the most difficult thing is to maintain and handle the different relations, becasue they are so close to you and have no alternatives for them too. Other things are equally difficult to handle, like your profession, career, finances and future planning.

How do you handle the relations aspect here then? Communication? Ego? Well, the way communication can sort relations it can make it bitter too, especially communication with bad temper. Ego has to be ruled out in any relations, but that's not easy again. Misunderstandings, hurt, ego, bad temper,bitter or hard feelings spoil the very essence of any relationship. How far do you think you can carry these things with you? May be months, years..ages..Why can't we let it go? Twist our thinking and think in a total different direction. I think I am writing this because people around me and people in my life are very important to me. I can't stay alone. Infact no one can, even those who proudly claim that they can stay by themselves very happily. It depends on time they have spent like that. That's a kind of planning I would say, would sound a little harsh and wierd, but it's like banking on something. Today you might be very happy in your own world but there surely comes a time when  you need people around you for variety of reasons, in that case it's so difficult to start from scratch. Make new relations, enhance them and live with it.?..Or maintain the relations that you already have in addition to making new relations. This would help us always have people around us.

Man cannot stay in isolation for long..he is a social animal. I am not too sure what made me write this blog, but as I mentioned in my earlier blog, that writing here makes me understand few things and now I know that I need to keep in touch with my folks and friends...try to correct the misunderstandings if any, that is so important because it  brings me a sense of belongingness and ofcourse I would never know when I would need them:)






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Blogging

Well, I am not a celebrity, so there are very few people who follow my blog..and they were asking me as to why haven't I written a blog since last 2 months:)?. I think it would be great if I write blogs everyday, the way we write daily diaries. I used to write one when I was in college, it's fun reading it now. Writing a blog like that? Well, I am not too sure if I can publish all those details :). I think we should write diaries..and our feelings, you never know you would be famous one day and your diary would be published as your autobiography....LOL.Jokes apart, but I really think it's nice to write it that way. Many a times I am not too consistent with what all I follow. Sometimes I feel that it's a rule, and If I have to do it, I would rather prefer not doing it.

I know people like my father in law who writes his diary everyday before his dinner, and he follows it consistently. I admire him for that. People from that generation are so particular about anything..especially the consistency and regularity of things that they follow. He goes for his walk and exercise everyday early in the morning, like my dad who never fails to have his walk during the day. They know it is important, not because they are diabetic, but just because they also enjoy its regularity. They instantly miss the activity if they are unable to do it due to some reasons, and it's so obvious to people around them, that they are so used to their routine. I am consistent in being irregular too.

There is another side to being regular according to me. Things like your daily exercise routine....if it is not regular you would not find any difference of the exercise, so it becomes important after a course of time. Some of the routine activities, going to office,cooking, writing, studying :) and many more things can be very boring if they are too regular...I know it sounds weird but it depends on how you follow your routine. I think some activities need to be regular, but if they are carried with a little variation it's fun to have it in a regular schedule. Getting some new tasks at office, trying a new recipe your  loved one would like makes cooking special, studying something new everyday makes studying a pleasure.

Anyways blogging is never meant to be regular, but it's nice blogging once in a while and sometimes gives you pleasure, because while writing my blogs sometimes suggests something to change in myself too and converts me into a new person everytime.